Women in the New Testament….who did Jesus hang out with?
Luke 7:11-15 – Mourning Widows
Luke 7: 36-50 – Contrite Prostitutes (adjectives are everything)…perfume for his feet
Luke 8:43-48 – A woman with “lady problems” (Menstruation was considered unclean so this woman’s 12 year bleeding had made her a societal out cast)
John 4: 1-26, 39 – A Samaritan woman (Jews hated the Samaritans) who had been married five times and was currently living with her boyfriend…not your ideal Jewish girl next door character.
As girls we can be quite catty, and we are quick to judge one another, at times justly but more often just harshly. All of the women above we despised members of society, either because of their actions or through no fault of their own. Jesus healed them and forgave them and brought them into his kingdom. Just look at Jesus’s history and you will find women who made their own fair share of mistakes. Eve….well we all know Eve’s contribution, Sarah laughed at God when he told her she’d have a child at 90…and then she did, Rebecca played favorites with her twins and cheated her firstborn out of his inheritance, Rachael lied to her father and hated her sister, Perez slept with her father in law, Rahab was a prostitute who harbored Israelite spies against her own country, Ruth was a Moabite pagan, and Mary was an unmarried teenage mother. God can and does use and cherish all women, regardless of our position in society or past transgressions.
Luke 10:38-42
“Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, ‘Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me.’ But the Lord answered her, ‘Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken from her.”
This is a stark contrast to how we a programmed to live in today’s society. Martha was an organized, efficient worker. She was tying to serve Jesus and his friends and be a good host in her house. These are all admirable qualities, so why then did Jesus tell her Mary, who was currently sitting on the floor listening to him, was the one choosing the better way to use her time? I think the point is truly hit home we when apply it to a group of women such as ourselves. As a group of proactive, self-starting women we naturally have several strong, type A personalities in our sorority. How frustrating is it to try to lead a group of people who maybe do not work as hard as you think they should, aren’t as dedicated to the cause as you, or frankly just don’t care like you do? It’s easy to get irritated and somewhat hostile to the people you think are just chilling and not helping you like they should. It’s also easy to get self- righteous.
Jesus isn’t condoning a lazy, come-what-may attitude here, but he is pointing out a very dangerous flaw in Martha the busy little worker bee. Consumed by her acts of “service,” which in themselves are not wrong or bad things, she has contempt for her sister who is not helping her. She is so stressed out about getting everything done she has missed the greatest gift of all, her Lord in her own house!
Finals are coming up, a new semester of Sigma Alpha fast approaches. Tonight we are electing new committee chairs to will plan activities and events for the chapter. You are each going to face a situation similar to Martha’s; you really need to think now about how you will respond.
Don’t forget that each of your sisters is valuable and cherish her. She will frustrate you I promise, and there is going to be a time you will frustrate her. But bear with one another in love and remember the most important part of this sorority is not how much it does, how many members it has or even its reputation on campus. The most important thing about Sigma Alpha is that all the sisters love and care for one another. The rest will fall into place.
